Sunday, December 19, 2010

One of those days...

It is again "One of those days"...when you really dont have that you think you will have. It is very disheartening and you feel so betrayed. I just used "Disappointing" so many times and it just seemed this is the only word left in my conversation with so many people. With the same people who promised that they are there for me and stand by me all the time...but NO...
But after some time i thought, why am i at all CRYING...does it matter in my long term goal. It just became the debate between "Long term goal vs. Short term desire". All of us want to be happy all the time. And we just see what makes us happy in next moment...and we want to fulfill our short term desire. It is not bad at all to have a short term desire and get it fulfilled and BE HAPPY. But, we just realise next moment that we don't have it. Ufff...it is so painful and unpleasant. Such agony.
Now, what to do. Stay in pain...and grouch about it. Is it really helpful or is it really going to pay. All of know the answer "NO". But again, how many of us accept and move ahead. Move to achieve the "Long term goal".
Yes, it may be true that "Long term goal" is pile of success of "Short term desire". At the same time, it is to be understood that one failure in "Short term desire" doesn't mean loss of your "Long term goal". There is always a learning in each success and failure. So have the courage to learn, leave and move.
In the end, never ever forget to SMILE. It makes your day and night. BELIEVE.
Cheers,
Chetna